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Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
ahh I thought u blocked me

Shane says:
nup i dont block people, subtle ignoring works best

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
so do I fall into the subtle ingorees?

Shane says:
well we hardly talked before things, but im sure you can figure that one out

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
not really

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
tell me straight up

Shane says:
well, really, you never are online, and ive never needed to talk to you; this is the first time you\'ve messaged me, i usually dont notice who is or isnt online unless i need to talk to them

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I must have been mistaken because I thought we were friends

Shane says:
i guess we, were, being the key word, but i was also and still am friends with tami

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I dont usually go posting ram to people I dont like or feel that there is some sort of friendship there too

Shane says:
Im greatful for that, but things change, you know that, your older and have lived longer, im sure similar things hav ehappend to you along the road
Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I didnt really think it was a case of taking sides

Shane says:
no it isnt really
Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I know u r friends with Tami & I respect that but what happened between Tami & I is between Tami & I and I am kinda disappointed that people choose to involve themselves in it because quick frankly it\'s non of their business

Shane says:
thats true, but ive known her alot longer then ive known you; its loyaltie, we were there when she expressed her feelings, it was her own business that she chose to tell us..you didnt expect to have much of a sympathy vote after it all though, did you?

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
well no seeing you only heard her side

Shane says:
where were you to tell us yours?

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
u have to remember there is always two sides to the coin

Shane says:
then go ahead and share it

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I didnt have internet access

Shane says:
you\'ve left it so long

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I came back & I was banned from the server & all my accounts were deleted

Shane says:
Totally understandable though, but you\'ve heard of email? theres multiple ways you could of told one of us, at least

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I didnt think it involved anyone but Tami & I

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
Im not out to win sides

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
never have been & never will

Shane says:
well, we went for the side we heard first

Shane says:
story*

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
some are still my friends because they didnt think it had anything to do with them

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
to me a friendship is bigger than who u r seeing at the time

Shane says:
i agree, but i thought you and tami had both? If so, it cant of been that big to you

Shane says:
can you honestly tell me a situation similar to what happened has never happened with say one of your friends? good friends

Shane says:
and you\'ve never stuck by that friends side?

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I would have loved to be still friends but she chose otherwise & she decided to take a few friendships off me along the way

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
Im not gonna be with someone for their sake

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
it has to be two ways

Shane says:
well you broke her heart, i cant blame her for her decisions

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
with the distance I couldnt do it anymore

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
yeah thats her decision

Shane says:
I thought there was more to it then just distance

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
nop need for others to get in on the act

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
it has nothing to do with anyone else

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
anyway I can see were I stand in your eyes so no use me going on anymore

Shane says:
well, we all express our anger differently, she chose to tell us and we chose what we chose

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
yup

Shane says:
she was being honest with us because she trusted us

Shane says:
if say, it wasnt you who had done it, i think youd feel the same way as we do

Shane says:
we all respect her, and respected you too
Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
nah I dont feel Ive been shown alot of respect

Shane says:
for good reasons
Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
maybe because I havent got anything anyone wants anymore

Shane says:
I cant tell you how to live your life, perhaps you should of thought your descisions through better

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
what & stayed with Tami just to get trust of everyone?

Shane says:
you left her in the worst conditions

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I think it would be worse for someone to be with someone for the sake of not hurting their feelings

Shane says:
you dragged it somewhat on, then just left everyone

Shane says:
you could of made peace with at least some of us, but you never even tried

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
nope I didnt leave

Shane says:
no you just hid from her, ignored her, how is that mature?

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I have made peace with a few

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I never ignored her

Shane says:
I have next to no life experience to match yours, but from what i see it was a pretty shitty way to end things

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I may have dragged it out & did the wrong thing in that sense but the motivations was by no means out of malice

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
it was because I didnt want to hurt her feelings

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I know in that sense I ****** up

Shane says:
you obviously neglected the fact that it made it worse by the wya you done it, making it worse for her and yourself

Shane says:
a very big sense imo

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
but Im human & sorry to say humans arent perfect

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
in what way did I make it worse?

Shane says:
try imagine if the tables were turned, and that all of a sudden she stopped communicating with you, how would you feel about that if it was the person you loved?

Shane says:
I mean really, its obvious

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I never stopped communicating on purpose

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I had no internet\

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
& the first chance I got I tried contacting her

Shane says:
you had no straight after it happened?

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
nope I ended it after I lost my connection

Shane says:
for that sole reason, or were there other factors

Shane says:
apart from distance

Shane says:
and communications

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
the reason I wasnt in a hurry to get back after that was to give her space

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
no others were a factor until after we split up

Shane says:
fair enough

Shane says:
i can see where your coming from, it just didnt appear good to us did it

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
well as I said there are two sides to the coin

Shane says:
yip, and we heard one

Shane says:
seems we arnt getting the othe

Shane says:
r(

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
I by no means want anyone to take sides I just thought it would be nice to still be friends with those I formed a friendship with prior to all this

Shane says:
true; all i can say is similar things like this hav ehappened to me, obviously to an extent; but the person who you hold a stronger friendship with allways gets the plus
Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
& u were one person I really liked

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
Tami has done alot for all u guys & I can understand if need be u all would side with her but Im not one to use people as pawns to play against someone else

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
so I dont think there is a need for the side taking

Shane says:
i can tell you now, she tells us what she wants, in no way does she command us to hate you, we all choose freely

Shane says:
I can tell you im not taking sides, but merely have decided from what ive been told

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
fair enough

Pleased not to spam your trojans says:
anyway I g2g

[Tami]

Time for someone to grow up, and I don\'t mean you, Shane.

[Trinity]

Wish dave would just move on...

Edit: Anyone else notice how good my sig looks with the new skin? I might finally be forced to make a new one...

[Tami]

yup trin, you clash time for a change /blum.gif\' class=\'bbc_emoticon\' alt=\':P\' />

Dave has the \"xt drama bug\" he doesn\'t get that it has no place here.